9/23 couples, in person
Gottman - soft startup practice re chores
husband Tom said he'd "strangle" his brother if he borrows the truck again - both laughed, no intent
wife Lena: fights down to ~3x/wk (was daily) (G1)
appreciation log: Tom 5/7 days, Lena 2/7
Lena teared up re feeling alone w/ kids
Tom quiet 2nd half, on phone
both rated session helpful 7/10
